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the Me to we journey
~ Small Group-based Mentoring & instruction by
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intelligent individuals

This Course + Community is for

who are ready to do love and relationships differently this time—with clarity, confidence, and intention—so that this time LOVE LASTS.

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This is for you if…

You’re single and actively seeking a partner to co-create a meaningful, lifelong relationship. Or, you're dating someone new and want to set the stage for success.

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waste time, money, energy

And if you don't want to...

or emotional resources on the wrong relationship again. Or, you’ve been hurt by choosing unwisely in the past—and you’re determined to break that cycle.

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you’re hoping to start a family

Timing matters because perhaps...

or still build one, and don’t have the bandwidth for a “better-than-nothing” relationship. You're not just dating for dating sake but with the intention to find your Forever One.

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potential for partnership

You’re done mistaking...

and ready to see clearly what’s real, right from the start. You’re ready to do the work now—so that in your next relationship you'll have the skills to co-create your Happily-Ever-After Relationship.

you crave an approach

You’re also in the right place if...

to better understanding yourself as a partner that is grounded in science and sees you as a one-of-a-kind individual honoring your uniqueness as a partner.

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Want to know what traits in a person...

And you're in the right place if you...

can genuinely grow as they continue to become their best selves—and recognize which traits are unlikely to change. You want to be able to identify individuals with a growth mindset, who have the capacity to co-create a thriving, interdependent relationship.

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educate yourself at a master’s level

You believe LOVE IS IMPORTANT enough to...

just like you’ve done for your career. If that sounds like you, you’ll feel right at home in this journey—and in this community!

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Are you ready to stop beating your head against the wall of painful past relationship woes? It’s time for you to get ready to have the

LOVE of your life!

Learn how to choose wisely and lay the foundation for everlasting love

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WHAT YOU GAIN BY JOINING

This isn’t just a course. It’s your turning point.


The Me to WE Journey
is a 13-week cohort-based transformation experience followed by a full year of community and support inside the Intelligent Love Mastery Community. It is designed to change the way you approach love—forever.

Not with abstract advice or fluffy affirmations, but with a highly personalized, science-backed, and actionable methodology that gives you clarity on who you are as a partner, who you’re most compatible with, and how to build a lasting relationship from the ground up.

By the end of the journey, you will:

 

  • Understand your Relationship Blueprint—the unique constellation of relationship patterns, beliefs, values, and behaviors that define who you are as a partner
  • Have a clear, confident grasp of what kind of individual – as seen by their relationship patterns, values and personality traits – is most likely to co-create a thriving life with you
  • Be able to spot early yellow, orange & red flags and compatibility mismatches—and exit sooner with dignity and certainty. Meanwhile, also learning when not to throw out the “baby with the bathwater.”
  • Know how to “use your love drugs wisely” in the early stages of attraction to lay down a strong, healthy foundation
  • Become someone who can inspire emotional safety in a partner—and receive it in return
  • Feel confident in your ability to co-create a “WE” that’s never existed before—a one-of-a-kind partnership built on mutual respect, emotional intelligence, and aligned values
  • Learn how to become a private investigator for your own heart—getting creative about where and how to find aligned partners outside of the usual app-based approach, and uncovering new pathways to meet someone extraordinary



 

And that’s not all…


This program is designed to meet you where you are. You’ll have the option to go deep—or deeper—with three participation tracks:

Bare Bones: Just show up for the weekly 90-minute live teachings and learn what you were never taught about who you are as a partner and how to choose wisely

Middle Path: Combine live sessions with curated readings, videos, and neuroscience-based exercises that build new relationship habits

Deep Dive Super Achievers: Immerse yourself in everything—dissect your top 10 relationship patterns, explore the science behind them, and build a personal playbook for lasting love

No matter your track, you’ll receive personalized follow-up options that align with your preferred learning style—whether visual, auditory, experiential, or kinesthetic.


 

This is the relationship school you never got.


Not in high school. Not in college. Not even from your well-meaning parents or therapists.

We’re living in a world flooded with poor relationship models and contradictory advice. It’s no wonder marriage rates are declining and concepts like polyamory or perpetual independence are gaining traction—not necessarily out of preference, but from fear and disillusionment.


 

But here’s the truth:


It doesn’t take much to rise above the median.

Even a modest investment in learning this material will yield returns—emotionally, relationally, and generationally.

You’ll become the type of person that someone remarkable wants to choose and cherish.

You’ll radiate self-awareness, groundedness, and a depth that most people don’t even know how to name—but will feel in their bones.

And as you’re getting ready through this journey so as soon as you meet someone who has promise to be your Forever One, you’ll already have the tools, structure, and mindset in place to build a love that lasts.

Looking forward to seeing you in
the Beta Cohort!

What makes The Me to WE Journey unique:

You’ll discover your Relationship Blueprint.

Through your top 10 relationship patterns, you’ll uncover the spine of who you are as a partner—and what kind of partner complements you for long-term success.

This is a methodology no one else is teaching.

Joy is the only relationship expert who deciphers how your patterns weave together to reveal your one-of-a-kind blueprint—then shows you exactly what to look for in someone else to build a thriving WE.

It’s designed for how you learn best.

Whether you’re a reader, listener, experiential learner, or visual thinker, you’ll receive follow-up exercises tailored to your learning style—so the insights stick and transform how you show up in love.

You choose your pace.

With three paths (Bare Bones, Middle Path, Deep Dive Super Achiever), you can tailor the experience to your bandwidth and still receive powerful results.

You’ll learn how to recognize true relational capacity.

This includes how to identify individuals who are capable of interdependence and partnership—versus those who are emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or locked in self-centered dynamics.

This is the education you should have received in school.

We weren’t taught how to choose a partner, how to communicate with emotional intelligence, or how to navigate conflict with compassion. This course fills that gap—and gives you the tools to lead in love.

If you’re ready to show up for this next chapter ...

... of your life with clarity, courage, and heart, then this is your masterclass.
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Taught by Joy Nordenstrom, Founder of Joy of Romance, Inc. & Intelligent Love

20 years. Thousands of journeys. A proprietary system blending science, wisdom, and intuition.

While others offer matchmaking or coaching, I offer a holistic, unmatched framework that turns relationship theory into thriving real-world partnerships. Backed by research, refined through client success stories, and guided by deep intuition, my process helps you break old patterns, choose with clarity, and build lasting joy.

WHY THIS COURSE IS DIFFERENT FROM ANYTHING YOU’VE TRIED

Most online relationship courses treat love like a formula or a fantasy.
This is a masterclass in reality-based, emotionally intelligent connection.

What makes The Me to WE Journey truly different:

Tailored Learning Paths
You won’t be overwhelmed—you’ll choose the depth of engagement that matches your lifestyle and learning preference. Plus, you’ll be able to return to the material and continue to explore the depth and breadth of each pattern after the initial 13-week coursework is complete. That way, if you have questions, you’re in a supportive community with mentorship for 10 months from Joy during your cohort’s private office hours:
 
Bare Bones

 (class attendance only)

 
Middle Path

 (classes + key exercises + curated content)

 
Deep Dive

 (full curriculum engagement with advanced strategy)

Whether you’re a visual learner, auditory processor, or kinesthetic doer—you’ll receive exercises and resources crafted to 

fit how you learn best.

You’ll be taught how your patterns intersect, how they show up under stress, and how to select someone whose patterns fit yours like a hand in a glove—not by chance, but by design. And, know how to proactively deal with the few patterns that may be you and your partner’s oil and water combinations, so as not to do damage to your love or your WE.

This course delivers the essential education you should have received decades ago on identifying who you are as a partner – both now and who you’re desiring to evolve into as your best self as a partner – what that indicates about the patterns you would be wise to look for in a long-term partner, and how to identify the type of WE you’d like to co-create with your partner. We simply weren’t taught how to date well, how to choose wisely, or how to put down a solid foundation from which you can build lasting love. This is the training grounds to equip you to succeed in love.

You’ll learn how to spot narcissistic and other challenging relationship patterns early and avoid building relationships that drain your spirit or sabotage your future.

This course doesn’t just change your next few dates. It goes beyond connections with intimate partners and shifts how you relate to everyone close to you—for the rest of your life. The goggles you use to see how you relate to others will forever be altered!